Sexuality & Sex Therapy
in Washington, DC
Sex and sexuality can feel complicated, especially when you do not fit what others consider “the norm.” But those standards keep changing. Trying to fit them can make it harder to be your full, authentic self.
Even if you do fit those standards, you may still have trouble connecting with others or enjoying sex.
You may feel anxious about sex, experience sexual concerns, or want support as you explore your sexuality. Sex therapy can help.
Welcome Your Identity + Connect With Your Sexuality.
I’m Dr. Wayne Bullock, a licensed psychologist with a Master of Education in Human Sexuality. I offer sexuality therapy and sex therapy in downtown Washington, DC, and the greater DC area.
Talking about sex with a stranger may feel awkward or intimidating. I provide a private, supportive space where you can speak openly. My education and experience in human sexuality help me approach these conversations without judgment.
Sex therapy can help you work through sexual challenges and build a more fulfilling sex life.
It’s time to reconnect with your body, identity, and desires.
Contact me for a free consultation or book an appointment to get started.
What Is Sex Therapy?
Sex therapy helps address problems around sexual function, sexual orientation, gender identity, intimacy, and pleasure. Sex therapy can support both individuals and couples.
Sex and sexuality counseling never involves sexual activity with your therapist. As a sex psychotherapist, I draw on my education, training, and experience to help you understand concerns related to your sexuality and identity.
You and your partner may also want help discussing differences in desire, rebuilding intimacy, communicating about sex, navigating relationship agreements, or understanding how past experiences affect your sexual connection.
When to See a Sex Therapist
Common Sex and Sexuality Challenges
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Anxiety, stress, or shame about sex
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Body image and self-esteem problems
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Challenges related to gender identity, sexual orientation, or transition process
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Desire or intimacy difficulties
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Disparities or misaligned expectations with your partner
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Exploring kinks and fetishes
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Low libido or sex drive
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Sexual dysfunctions
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Navigating alternative relationships (e.g., ethical non-monogamy)
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Painful sex or dissatisfaction during intercourse
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Performance or arousal concerns (e.g., erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm)
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Sexual abuse or sexual trauma
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General sex and sexuality education
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Uncontrollable and compulsive sexual behavior
Are you or your partner facing any of these concerns? Sex therapy may help.
You do not need to have a specific sexual problem to benefit from therapy. You may simply want to explore your sexuality or better understand your identity in a safe, informed space. Sexuality therapy can help you explore your identity, sexual orientation, gender, and what sexuality means in your life.
How Can Sex and Sexuality Therapy Help?
People seek sex and sexuality therapy for many reasons. You may want to understand yourself, reconnect with pleasure, improve a relationship, or heal from sexual trauma. We will shape therapy around your needs and goals.
Discover
You may have questions or doubts about who you are and what feels right for you. We can explore your sex, gender identity, sexual orientation, and attraction. Together, we will identify what feels authentic to you.
Address
Together, we will explore the thoughts, feelings, beliefs, behaviors, and past experiences that may affect your sexual health.
We will work to understand the source of your concerns and find healthier ways to respond. I can help you change unhelpful patterns and communicate your needs more clearly.
Enjoy
Therapy can strengthen your connection with yourself and your partner or partners. It can also help you build confidence, intimacy, and satisfaction. The goal is to help you experience sexuality in a way that feels fulfilling and right for you.
Dr. Wayne Bullock | Sexuality and Sex Therapist in Washington DC
I provide in-person sexuality and sex therapy for individuals and couples at my downtown Washington, DC office. My clients come from Washington, DC, Alexandria, Arlington, Bethesda, and communities throughout the DC Metro area.
My practice is open to all identities, orientations, races, ethnicities, and religions. I’m particularly interested in helping members of the LGBTQ+ community rise against adversity and stand tall in their truth.
We’ve come a long way in our capacity to explore, accept, and relish our sexual selves, but there is more to do. I firmly believe in the value of in-person counseling to affirm your identity and orientation, nurture self-love and connection, and improve your sexual satisfaction.
My approach is psychoanalytic and tailored to you. I’ve also received extensive training in interpersonal and relational therapy. I see sex and sexuality as part of human nature and strive to cultivate a shame-free and validating place to be curious, learn, and heal.
Do you have any questions? You can book a 15-minute phone consultation to get to know each other and share your concerns. Individual therapy sessions are generally scheduled weekly and last 45 minutes. If you are interested in couples sex therapy, we can discuss your concerns and the available session format during an introductory consultation.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions About Sex Therapy
Do I need to have a serious sexual problem to begin therapy with you?
No. Some clients seek sex therapy because they are experiencing distress or relationship difficulties. Others want to understand themselves better, including their desires, sexuality, and identity in a thoughtful, informed environment.
What if I feel embarrassed or uncomfortable talking about sex?
Feeling nervous is completely understandable. You determine what you share, and you do not need to explain everything immediately. My role is to create a respectful, nonjudgmental environment where we can approach sensitive concerns with curiosity and at a pace that you’re comfortable with.
Is sex therapy available for both individuals and couples?
Yes. I provide sex and sexuality therapy for individuals and couples. Many sexual and relationship concerns can be explored in individual therapy, even when they involve a partner. However, if couples therapy appears more appropriate, we can discuss that option during your consultation.
Can sex therapy help when partners have different levels of desire?
Yes. Differences in sexual desire are common and do not necessarily mean that either partner is doing something wrong. Therapy can help you understand what may be contributing to the difference, communicate without blame or pressure, clarify boundaries, and explore forms of intimacy that respect both partners.
Are you affirming of LGBTQ+ identities, kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy?
Yes. My approach is LGBTQ+ affirmative and sex-positive. I see sex and sexuality as part of human nature and strive to cultivate a shame-free and validating place for my clients. You’re free to discuss and explore sexual orientation, gender identity, kink, BDSM, fetishes, polyamory, open relationships, and other forms of consensual non-monogamy during your sessions.
Can sex therapy help after sexual trauma?
Yes. Sexual trauma can affect your relationship with your body, desire, arousal, trust, boundaries, and intimacy. Sex therapy provides a paced and affirming place to process these effects without pressuring you to do anything before you’re ready. I’m also a trauma-informed therapist.
Is everything I tell you confidential?
Yes. Sex therapy is confidential under the same professional and legal standards as other forms of psychotherapy. I understand that concerns involving sex, identity, kink, or relationship structure can feel especially private. During the consultation or first session, you are welcome to ask questions about confidentiality.
Is your Washington, DC office close to public transportation?
Yes. The office is near the Farragut North and Farragut West Metro stations. This makes it accessible for many clients traveling from elsewhere in Washington, DC, Northern Virginia, and nearby Maryland communities.
Do you accept insurance?
For many reasons, including safeguarding your confidentiality and preserving the integrity of our therapy, I do not have contracts with any insurance (I am not in-network). However, I am considered an out-of-network provider, and many insurance plans will reimburse you at least partially for services rendered out-of-network. Contact your insurance company to find out more.
What types of payment do you accept?
I accept payment via check or major credit cards, including those through Health Savings Accounts (HSAs) and Flexible Spending Accounts (FSAs).
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